Today I mark the death of dating. Yeah..yeah I know what your thinking. Let kitty pull wool off your eyes. See, both genders has made so many rules when it comes to dating, that now it has become to complex for one to enjoy...I compare it chemistry. All these formulas and constructed elements.. just sucks the fun out of it.
You cant just go to the movies and enjoy ones company. So much pressure is emphasized on is he/she marriage material?..does this mean were boyfriend/ girlfriend? Why can't we just enjoy THE DAMN MOVIE!!!!! Why must me put Labels?
See the whole origin of dating was to get your feet wet, enjoy life and potential meet someone you eventually start a relationship with.
The difference now is we dont allow it to happen naturally. We try to force a flower to bloom. When we all know that with rain and little sunshine will eventually cause it to appear. Being inpatient, we over water the seed and over nourish it and it never blossoms.
I think time is essential, but in the mean time why can't we enjoy movies, dinner, or drinks. If naturally it turns out that he/she becomes your boo great! But if not whats wrong with having a great time with a friend.
What we fail to realize that it should actually be a fun experience. You meet different people, and when you get down to the science of dating it's a place for experimenting.
You put the wrong chemical together and it explodes in your face. It's okay dust off your lab coat and make note, that the particular chemical is highly flammable lol...
Put on your big girl/boy lab coats and snap on some goggles and go at it and rebirth dating
I say we call it dating chic*
Laugh, enjoy life and date chic ;)
